Black candle black ribbon picture of the person who is causing drama black pepper crushed clove and sage burn bowl ceramic or clay to burn the clove and sage one black envelope black pen or marker on the back of the picture write 7 things you dislike about the individual and suggestions on how they might improve or get rid of those behaviors in the black ink then light candle and herbs in the burn bowl focus on the change the banishment of their poor behaviors then wrap the picture in black ribbon and say what is in this person’s heart now it must soon depart all the ill will and negative intent be banished from thee in this moment I bind thee (insert full name) from doing harm to others and into thine self never shall you darken my door step again until able to only be a true friend then light the wrapped picture after placeing it in the black envelope with the black pepper on fire with the candle flame let it burn down to nothing let sage and clove burn down to nothing