Hi, does anyone have any advice here? Been dating this horse girl for over three years now, and relationship is going well. But the thing we always fight over is horses. I was never really interested in them but tried to make an effort and get into it. I can do some pretty basic trail riding type stuff now and don’t mind it, but she is really passionate about it. The thing that always gets me is that anything horse related takes ages, I can’t just watch her ride at a club or show for an hour or two it always takes much longer, and then horse stuff always seems to take priority over everything else including my university studies. Overall with this and a couple of bad experiences with horses recently (my first horse dying just as we get the hang of it, and spending quite a bit of money on a dud horse ie. Injured horse) I’ve had enough of them and don’t want to deal with them any more personally. For me they are too little reward with massive consequences. Obviously this causes a lot of tension, but I don’t feel like it would have to if she respected my position on horses (nice animals and nice to ride, but too costly and time consuming for me) , and my personal time Ie. Not booking farriers, hay deliveries and pick ups/drop offs in my personal time ie. Usually uni days (only days not working). It would be nice to know if anyone has experienced anything similar to this or has any advice. Because like I said everything else in the relationship is great, this is the only place we both have to work on. Thanks.