As a woman (14) I love when a man is responsible. Being a moderator on Reddit or Discord shows me how strong and capable he can be.
I also like when men are assertive and caring. I love when my bf (32) tells me to sit on his lap. He calls me his kitten and he pet my head and I nuzzle and purr while his massive, throbbing, fully erect, 3-inch cock pushes against my backside.