My sister-in-law wants me.. my wife is oblivious

Idk how to tell my wife that her sister has been wanting me for years and is not afraid to imply it when she’s not around. It’s starting to get harder and harder to reject her when she’s making things so obvious. Example, she slide into bed with me when my wife went to work & they re about the same size so I didn’t realize until minutes after cuddling. She started laughing & that’s when I noticed. My wife thinks it’s honest teasing but … yeah . Any suggestions?


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Talked to FIL. Showed recording and what’s going on. He’s completely on my side, had his wife come this morning and get all of SIL’s stuff out of my house as she’s moving in with them till she finds her own place. Also signed her up for counseling because this was not normal.

Wife now understands the seriousness of what’s going o on and apologized. She didn’t realize it was that bad and agreed to have her sister not come over until we and most importantly I felt comfortable again & in the meanwhile so she can learn something from professionals. She understands if that may take months or years if need be. I’m okay seeing her because I never wanted her… (well I just wanted her out of my personal space uninvitedly)

Thanks everyone!!🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

side note- ppl need to stop messaging me “is she hot”… I’m a married guys. C’mon! 🤦🏻

When I said “harder and harder to reject” I didn’t mean, I was breaking and coming to temptation, I mean from losing my shit & getting yelling/getting aggressive (obv. not physically)