Lmao. It’s a little sad you felt the need to dig into my history just too.. what? Make an ass of yourself with baseless assumptions and petty pathetic insults because I stated my own opinion on the matter based on my own experiences? I never once said anything about “your preference”.

I’ve been clean for quite a while now actually 🙂 yes, thanks for asking 😏
It’s something I struggled with for many, many years. But that actually only reinforces why I do look for both friends and something more on tinder, as I had to kick out many friends that used from my life.

It’s neither of those, and I have to presume you’ve never had any of these experiences, otherwise you wouldn’t misunderstand what I’m saying in my post.
I prefaced it with yes, I have slept around on tinder and in general, because yeah it does go against what I think about your statement in some ways, but that still doesn’t change what my INTENT, or my EXPECTATIONS, are. Two very important things.

So don’t misunderstand. I meet many, many kinds of people on tinder, and off tinder. It doesn’t matter where or on what app, at the end of the day meeting someone is meeting someone.

Some people I meet, I end up building a lot of rapport with them. They might or might not have feelings for me, and I may not have any for them, yet either way we become close. And even if I only like someone as a friend, I keep them around. It doesn’t matter if I don’t feel intimately towards them. Not everyone is only looking to get their dick wet, bro. (Maybe that’s your problem).

And some people I meet, sometimes only want to fool around. It’s as simple as that. Neither of us want to settle down with the other, and we fool around. No reason to overthink that. You can want to settle down with someone, but not find the right person. Not everyone “settles” with the first person to give them attention (I hope you don’t). And I think that’s the key this ridiculous explanation I should never have had to give you.

Ironically I still become great friends with those people as well! And, it’s important to note, I only “sleep around” with people who want the same. I don’t sleep with anyone that has feelings for me and I don’t, because I don’t like hurting anyone, and I don’t.

Some people I meet, and yes, I might try to pursue something! Yet it doesn’t change the fact that that’s not my only INTENT, nor ever my EXPECTATION. There are those words again.

Not sure how I insulted you with my original post, I simply disagree with the statement that tinder is not for friends. That’s absurd in my opinion. I’ve met some amazing people on there. Maybe you should try a different approach if things aren’t working for you, instead of insulting those who do look for both friends and potential lovers on tinder. If I did upset you, maybe you need to take a look at yourself before trying to berate me because of my own experiences. Especially resorting to assumptions. It’s sad, but I’ve met addicts with more empathy, integrity, and compassion than you, if I’m going to throw in my own assumptions. Pretty sad huh, you know nothing of that kind of life nor who I am or what I’ve done. So kindly shut your ignorant, self-righteous and naive mouth next time, and get off that imaginary high horse 🙂

I’m guessing you must make neither friends nor meet any potential lovers with how passionately upset you got with my own experiences. I’m sorry to say, but I can see why :/ I bid you a good day sir, and good luck!

Happy swiping 😎