A building burned down.
A trans person of colour is receiving emergency surgery: they could die at any moment.
Up the hall a gay interracial couple is in the ICU: their life support could fail at any moment.
Further down a woman is being treated for second degree burns and smoke inhalation: she may never be able to breathe properly again and will require surgery to erase the scars from the fire, her nerves were damaged.
A straight white man walks into the emergency room: he bumped his elbow fleeing the scene of the crime and is demanding immediate attention.
A nurse tells him to sit in the waiting room and fill out paper work, he’ll be seen too when staff are available.
The man kicks up a fuss claiming prejudice, misandry, heterophobia, cisphobia: he believes he is not being seen to because he it a straight white man.
He demands he be treated the same as everyone else instead of being hated.
His injury is negligible, most people wouldn’t even bother going to a hospital for it but he wants the same level of care as someone who needs emergency life saving surgery.
The nurse tells him he’s being irrational, he starts shouting that she’s attacking him, she clarifies he attacked her, she’s merely trying to make him see reason.
The man says: don’t fight fire with fire.
He conveniently forgets he’s the one who started the fire and burnt the building down killing dozens and injuring dozens more, he only cares he bumped his elbow while running away.
He feels attacked and threatened because he is not the most important person in the room, he is not the person most in need of help or attention.
He calls it cisphobia, reverse racism, heterophobia, anything to vilify others and justify his existence to himself.
stop cisphobia and heterophobia by realising others are being hurt more, killed and raped and violated and your pain?
You are standing on people crushing them, your pain: that’s the feeling of people pushing you off them.
[Source](http://jeanne-summers.tumblr.com/post/81143429743/cis-hetphobia)