I was just dumped a couple of hours ago but it didn’t go how I thought it was supposed to go. In my view, I have been seeing this guy for a couple of months casually. Sometimes we see each other 3 or 4 times a week, sometimes once every 2 weeks. We text but nothing in depth. We hang out, hook up, sometimes spend the night and rinse and repeat. I’m paraphrasing what happened today.

He wanted to talk so I met him for breakfast today at his place. He was very apologetic and sad and said, “this has been great getting to know you but I don’t think this is working out anymore.” I basically said, “ok, do you still want to have breakfast?” In my head, I was like he’s ending the casual relationship. It’s fine because we had this talk in the beginning about either of us ending it whenever.

He just kept looking at me while we were eating and finally he said, ” you know you don’t have to hold it in. It’s ok to be sad.” I was confused so I said “why would I be sad. I enjoyed my time with you. It’s ended.”

He then said, “well we were in a relationship so it’s not like ending a hookup”. This is where I fucked up. I said, “yea but it was a casual relationship”. He said, “what do you mean casual? We have been exclusive for over 3 months now”.

Um, no we haven’t. We had never had a talk about being exclusive, we literally only meant up to do fun activities and then hook up. When did we decide we were exclusive?

My face showed that this was brand new information to me. He said, “we kept spending time together. It was implied (????) that we were exclusive”. No it wasn’t and I told him that. He then asked, if I had been seeing other people to where I was just silent which basically answered it for him.

He started yelling and getting angrier because I wouldn’t answer his questions but I literally felt like I was having an out of body experience. It was too much information to process at once.

After 20 or so minutes of this I decided enough is enough. I took him into the bedroom, laid him on his bed, pulled down my leggings, and sat on his face. At first he let out a few ‘mrrufff!’, ‘Mrrmmurrhhhhfff!’ of surprise before his manly instincts and he licked me pussy and my crack. When I had enough, I released his boner and made him service my pussy with it.

During our aftercare, he told me that the whole experience had made his problems and stresses asscociated with his revelation feel much smaller deal and dissipated all the hysteria associated with it.