This thread is precisely why Reddit fucking sucks so god damn fucking much when it comes to exactly what they’re preaching, which is nuance. It’s fucking infuriating hat the position of this thread is “she’s right but because of a lack of nuance she’s gonna get discredited”. Fuck that. Fuck you. You don’t fucking get it. It’s like saying “all lives matter”. Yeah. You’re technically right. But YOURE the one saying fuck you to nuance when THIS is the argument you’re upvoting and perpetrating. No shit women should be proactive. No shit there are things they can do. But Fuck this goddamn normalizing of abusive men in power. This “well there’s always gonna be creeps so you gotta” FUCKING WHY?!?! WHY DOES THERE ALWAYS GONNA BE CREEPS?!?! And to be blunt. It’s exactly what you said. It’s men. It’s fucking young men on Reddit. Having been taught that the world is their oyster but they aren’t President so they’re oppressed. Believing that liking Star Wars and nerdy things is the same backlash as being black w/r/t ostracization. I was waiting. I knew it was starting with the countless “well Corey Feldman, well Terry Crewes” comments whenever anyone talks about the women suffering. Let’s be real. It was only a matter of time before Reddit made this a “well let’s think about how women are ALSO responsible and to blame for this shit”. Before it became a “well we gotta frame this in a way where we don’t have to actively accept that there are fundamental things men and men in power gotta change and need to try to make a better effort to call out in my fellow man poor behavior to fundamentally pivot from the perverse shithole we’re in”. Reddit: every thread screams about logic being king, and it’s never used in a way that seems to benefit women hmmmmmmmmmmmm weeeeeiiiiiirrrrrd This thread makes me want to puke and makes me completely and utterly pessimistic with regard to thinking ANYTHING is going to actually change in our culture. Also why the FUCK are we listening to Pam Anderson talk about anything when there’s literal sociological studies that show why victims of abuse act in ways simple minded 90s porn actresses might not have the best grasp on.