I have a good relationship with my boyfriend, we have been dating for 6 months now. However, I can’t help but feel weird about his relationship with anime and hentai. From the start, I knew he liked anime and that’s one of the reasons we became close, however, now that I’m getting closer to him, I can’t help but realize how much of a bigger sexual role anime plays in his life. For context, he has been watching anime and consuming hentai and animated erotica for some years now, and he has a favorite anime girl that he is dedicated to. His whole room is full of posters of her, always buys anything he can get that is related to her, figures, pillows… Everything. He also had a massive collection of porn and erotica related to her (including erotic cosplays) that he had been saving for some time and used to pleasure himself. After we started dating, he noticed that that made me uncomfortable so he tried to stop consuming it as much, he stopped using naked anime girls as wallpapers (he had them everywhere) but there are still pictures that he cannot get unnattached to (he has told me this). He used to refer to this specific anime character as his waifu and he has told me how he used to feel happy when people told him jokingly that she was his girlfriend. He also cannot bear the idea of living in a room that is not filled with his posters, and he has made this very clear to me, which disheartens me a little when i think about the possibility of living together. I know that he has tried to reduce his hentai consumption since we started dating, but I still feel weird about seeing all of the half naked posters in his room, seeing him obsess over everything that relates to this specific anime character and to animated porn. I don’t want him to just stop doing things he enjoys for me, but I would be lying if I said that I wouldn’t prefer for this specific aspect to be either reduced or gone. Idk what to do or how to deal with this, because other than this, he is a very good partner.