Being a “semi” virgin effects me in the sense that I can better control my sex drive without needing to bust a nut and be promiscous to do it. I’m more productive, efficient, effective, focused, determined and I have a clear purpose.

Successful entrepreneur. Virgin wife. Children whom I can lead and teach by our own example. Love God. Love people. Discipline.

P.S. I noticed some virgin guys simply had bad luck with women. I look like a male model and have been told I should audition. Women choose to be around me. Some “tried to shoot their shot”, catch my attention and date me, and these women are what you’d consider extremely beautiful.

I’ve turned down sex and other clear opportunities a number of times because I’m not really interested in wasting time dating just for dating sakes, but for a courtship and marriage. I don’t need the “experience” of screwing around only to breakup a year later or two and I can avoid that if I limit my sexual partners to near zero and choose a woman who HAS zero so I’m all she’s ever been intimate with and she’s the 2nd I’ve been intimate with.

Children are also drawn to me like a magnet. I suspect because I’ve kept and maintained a level of innocence impossible to find in most men today. There’s a light and aura that a virgin male gives off that attracts certain types of people, including higher quality women. Even MORE so if he doesn’t engage in porn and stops releasing his semen.

As a result, I tend to make friends and conversate with other people easily and with no effort. I have no social anxiety. I’m a pretty avg. guy who has a little more self-respect for himself and made a choice to share my heart and ALL of my heart and love for that ONE special one I will spend the rest of my life with.

So you see, not ALL virgin guys (me – semi-virgin) are these miserable, sad guys who’s virginity was a result of non-choice or indifference. Getting sex is easy. I can go to any club, sit at a bar and walk out that night with a girl…but once I start on that slippery slope, even if I marry the right girl for me, it will be difficult to remain faithful and true to her after having shared my body with multiple women.