We have been dating for nearly 3 years now and everything is AMAZING. We really love each other and we are really happy. I love everything about her. The problem is.. she doesn’t use lids.

She refuses to eat foods like pasta bake and lasagne because they have ‘lids’, she doesn’t use the lids on pots or tubs (she’ll either wrap it up with clingfilm or a tea towel but even that is pushing it for her), she doesn’t like to see me using tubs with lids on either, and once she got mad at me because my hair “looked like a lid”. She sometimes gets so mad that she shouts and looks physically angry but it goes away after a few minutes. I’m not sure if its a phobia or if they genuinely just annoy her and, if they do annoy her, I don’t know why they do.

It’s insane how far its gone and I don’t know how to talk to her about it without making her seem crazy. Any help and is this a normal thing in people?